Two Minutes Du Jour

When we hold onto something so tightly – an idea, a stance or even a habit – we miss the chance to let go, lighten up, and even laugh.

Sometimes, letting go feels as difficult as prying an Eggo waffle from the grip of a determined breakfast lover. Remember the classic “L’eggo My Eggo” commercial? The scene was simple: a tug-of-war over a crispy waffle, with the famous catchphrase, “L’eggo my Eggo!”—a battle of wills played out in the kitchen.

Decades later, that phrase took on new meaning for my family. When my kids visited their grandpa, they loved hearing him mix things up. He’d confuse Lego building blocks with “L’eggo My Eggo” waffles, saying “Lego My Lego” while proudly letting them know his freezer was stocked with Eggo waffles for their breakfast. We’d all laugh, and he was none the wiser – there was no need to explain the mixed-up wording or to correct it (and chances are, it was really a matter of his hearing).

That brings me to a thought: ego (not Eggo!) is often what prevents us from letting go. We hold on to explanations, excuses, or even the need to be right. Letting go of ego is like releasing that metaphorical waffle—it frees us from the struggle for control and allows for a lighter, more joyful experience.

Letting go of ego requires grace both for yourself and others. It’s not about winning or proving a point. It’s about allowing space for connection without needing to build up walls or explanations. Sometimes, letting go means you don’t need to say anything.

We’ve all been there—holding on too tightly, thinking our ego’s defense mechanisms will protect us. But in the end, when we let go of our ego, we often realize that it wasn’t about who was right. It was about building a stronger foundation, just like Lego blocks, piece by piece.

Next time you feel the urge to hold on—whether to an opinion, an argument, or even a waffle, consider letting go. You may find that the grace and connection that follow are far sweeter than anything your ego or Eggo could have provided!

Two Links Du Jour:

The Social Engineering Brilliance of “L’eggo My Eggo” – Wizard of Ads

Eckhart Tolle – How to Free Yourself from Your Ego Armor – Oprah