We live in an age where information is at our fingertips. Whether through a quick Google search or asking an AI for advice, we can gather facts and answers in seconds. But sometimes, the best ideas and most helpful resources don’t come from search engines. They come from people—your broader network, and sometimes, even from strangers.
Asking people, not just close friends or family, but colleagues, acquaintances, and even people you don’t know well, can unlock insights you never knew were out there. It might surprise you what you can learn when you’re open to asking others. In a room full of strangers, there’s quite possibly someone who has a similar experience or knows exactly the resource you’re seeking. And by engaging with them, you might spark a deeper connection or even a friendship.
Now, I’m not suggesting you bare your soul to the world or share personal details with everyone you meet. But I am suggesting that if you don’t ask, you might miss an opportunity that’s sitting right next to you. It could be at a networking event, a social gathering, or a casual conversation at the gym. If you’re willing to put yourself out there—without oversharing—someone might have the wisdom you need.
At the same time, there’s an important balance when it comes to sharing. While it’s great to offer your own experiences and resources, it’s equally important to avoid giving unsolicited advice. It often falls on deaf ears. However, if someone seeks your guidance, share it freely, knowing that your knowledge might make all the difference for them.
If you’re not sure how to start, try framing your questions in a neutral, inviting way. “Do you happen to know of any resources for…?” or “I’m exploring ideas around X, do you have any thoughts?” These types of questions don’t demand personal disclosure, but they open the door for valuable exchanges.
Think beyond your immediate circle when seeking information. Consider joining a book club, attending community events, or participating in workshops. Alumni networks and professional associations can be treasure troves of experience and advice. Volunteering and participating in community service groups can also connect you with like-minded people who may have exactly the insight you need.
The next time you’re looking for a resource or idea, trust that others might have the wisdom you’re seeking. The best discoveries often come when we step away from our screens and into a conversation.
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